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- <title>
- Apr. 19, 1993: Reviews:Books
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- <history>
- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1993
- Apr. 19, 1993 Los Angeles
- </history>
- <article>
- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- REVIEWS, Page 67
- BOOKS
- Promises Unpacked
- </hdr>
- <body>
- <p>By STEFAN KANFER
- </p>
- <qt>
- <l>TITLE: Remembering Denny</l>
- <l>AUTHOR: Calvin Trillin</l>
- <l>PUBLISHER: Farrar, Straus & Giroux; 210 Pages; $19</l>
- </qt>
- <p> THE BOTTOM LINE: A posthumous account of promise gone
- wrong, told by a master of insight and irony.
- </p>
- <p> Early in Remembering Denny, the author tips his hand: "It
- has been my experience," he writes, "that almost anyone who
- asks to speak at a funeral or memorial service wants to talk
- about himself." So it appears; this luminous valedictory centers
- on the late Roger ("Denny") Hansen. But it is as much about
- Calvin Trillin as it is about his classmate, the golden boy of
- Yale, '57.
- </p>
- <p> Back in the Eisenhower era, as one undergraduate put it,
- Yalies viewed the future as "Stairway to Heaven, moving up
- through the clouds on a blissful escalator." Trillin, a
- strangely appealing mixture of Jewish arriviste and Midwestern
- hick, entered college without ever having heard of Dostoyevsky
- or Greenwich, and he figured to stop ascending early in the
- journey. Denny was expected to keep on climbing. Champion
- athlete, top-ranking student, Rhodes scholar, subject of a Life
- magazine piece, he was discussed seriously as a potential
- candidate for the presidency. Forty years later, after a life
- of obscurity and pain, the golden boy sat back in a car and
- inhaled carbon monoxide until his heart stopped.
- </p>
- <p> What went wrong? Trillin, a New Yorker staff writer, sets
- out to find the truth, armed only with his wit and a handful of
- clues. En route Trillin recalls a time when striving was
- considered something a gentleman just didn't do. After all, why
- should he? Postgraduate privileges were guaranteed to go along
- with his Yale sheepskin. And then came the '60s: the Vietnam
- War, the civil rights struggle, the sexual revolution. "There
- is a common feeling among people my age," Trillin says, "that
- somehow the rules got changed in the middle of the game."
- </p>
- <p> Trillin candidly describes his own fumbling attempts to
- adjust: "I was remarkably easy to fool." Others, like Denny,
- never found their feet again. His jobs grew less significant,
- and influential friends dropped away. He never married. At a Big
- Chill session, one mourner suggests that the deceased had
- "unreasonably high standards." Another concludes that he was a
- suppressed homosexual. Still another observes that despite the
- scholar-athlete's "million-dollar smile," he was an emotional
- basket case, suffering from clinical depression.
- </p>
- <p> Trillin follows these leads as he traces Denny's parabola
- from college through abortive attempts at journalism to a slow
- decline in academia. Along the way he provides a superb portrait
- of an individual, a group and a vanished sensibility.
- </p>
- <p> Ironically, it is one of Denny's recent acquaintances who
- offers the most discerning epitaph: "You have a knapsack, and
- all the time you're growing up they keep stuffing promises into
- the knapsack. Pretty soon, it's just too heavy to carry. You
- have to unpack." As the author acknowledges, almost all of
- Denny's generation have found themselves bent with expectations
- that will never be realized. Unpacking, Trillin provides a
- class act in every sense of the word.
- </p>
-
- </body>
- </article>
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